tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4876005511404859259.post8601864904699189603..comments2024-01-22T05:12:14.300-05:00Comments on Mere C.S. Lewis: Money, money, money and prideKen Symeshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11459635303438115559noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4876005511404859259.post-25387015808048562172012-09-24T16:18:55.791-04:002012-09-24T16:18:55.791-04:00Why would a girl collect admirers in the first pla...Why would a girl collect admirers in the first place? Not for her own sake I suppose, to expand her ego. It's not your fault that you have guys who esteem you or admire you, in that sense (as to have you as a girlfriend). But if it is for your ego it is for your pride. Pride spreads misery in nature. So stay away from ego and selfishness; humility is beautiful. Real Christian men, not carnal dead Christians, are attracted to virtue. Frigid means cold, so by sexually frigid he meant sexually dead. Sex is about love, intimate, passionate, and just pure love. So it's not about receiving pleasure but about giving pleasure. So it stands that a proud person, consumed with self and ego, would most likely be sexually frigid. Being sexually stingy or inexperienced is not bad, on the contrary its great (no reason to be proud though); stay pure and wait for marriage. Sex before marriage is a colossal mistake. Wait for a man who is totally surrendered to the will of God, who does not respect men, but is indwelled by the Holy Spirit. A man who is not selfish but who is totally for God. This man will love his wife, and die for her. As Jesus did for the Church. Humility is just about making a right estimate of one's self. Stay away from pride dear sister, good luck and God Bless you with Love!JonathanAlexisXnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4876005511404859259.post-8476557515989366032012-09-18T23:53:52.017-04:002012-09-18T23:53:52.017-04:00What does this part mean? What is this prideful gg...What does this part mean? What is this prideful ggirl like? I mean I have a lot of admirers but am saving myself for a Christian man. Whats "sexually frigid"? I am sexually stingy/inexpereienced. "What makes a pretty girl spread misery wherever she goes by collecting admirers? Certainly not her sexual instinct: that kind of girl is quite often sexually frigid. It is Pride."a girl trying to avoid pridenoreply@blogger.com